You were heartbroken when you split with your ex, so you definitely know how it …

You were heartbroken when you split with your ex, so you definitely know how it feels to be your friend who just got dumped, right? Well, no. We all go through loss differently, and relationships are complicated. For some people, a major breakup or divorce is totally devastating. For others, it’s a reason to throw a party. Empathy gives you insight into some of the emotions your friend might be having, but saying “I know how you feel” can sound dismissive of her unique experience. So instead…

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